24 Sept. 2010

Well Dad seems to be settling in just fine. He seems calm and content. We have music playing for him almost all day and we talk to him when he is awake. his appetite is good right now. The Hospice nurse was here today to take vitals and such she said he is in good hands and he looks great. I am adjusting to the new schedule and I am doing OK.

Love you all if any one would like to call me a d discus anything my phone # is 217-357-4898

Also we have Skype and the camera is in the same room dad is so if you wish to see how he is doing feel free

Skype name is i_b_don

Love all so you much

Jo Ellen

21 Sept., 2010

Well It is about time I update all of you. I am truly sorry it has taken me so long. Dad is doing fine he is stable and has even gained 2 pounds. Hospice says not to read much into it though he has a tendency to fluctuate 2-4 pounds either way. it depends on the time of day they weigh him and if he has just eaten or not.

I appreciate more than you know all the prayers and help I received during his bad spell (all of you know who you are).

Since then there has been a few changes. After much thought prayer and consideration and counseling with nursing staff, Hospice and friends and some family ( I would have asked you all but could not reach you.) I have decided to move Dad to my home and care for him here. Hospice will be coming in 4 days a week to Bath him and watch him for a few hours while I have a break. As well as as part of his Veterans benefits he will have a home health aid to help out. I fell this is a good move. I moved him home today. and he seems to be very happy and content.

His room is in our Parlor on the main floor. it is very comfortable. Hospice provided the bed, bed table, his medicines everything I need.down to rubber gloves.

The Hospice nurse helped me set up his medications so they will be easy to dispense. and he get interaction and personal care all day.

for those of you who are wondering if I can handle it. I think I can. and if after I have tried for a while and decide I can no longer handle it then I call the veterans home and he will be placed in the first empty bed. Then at least I can say I gave it a good try and my conscience will be clear.

The hardest part will be rolling him every 2 hours. but I can do it.


I would love to hear from all of you. I hope all is well.
Love you much
Jo Ellen