Well It is about time I update all of you. I am truly sorry it has taken me so long. Dad is doing fine he is stable and has even gained 2 pounds. Hospice says not to read much into it though he has a tendency to fluctuate 2-4 pounds either way. it depends on the time of day they weigh him and if he has just eaten or not.
I appreciate more than you know all the prayers and help I received during his bad spell (all of you know who you are).
Since then there has been a few changes. After much thought prayer and consideration and counseling with nursing staff, Hospice and friends and some family ( I would have asked you all but could not reach you.) I have decided to move Dad to my home and care for him here. Hospice will be coming in 4 days a week to Bath him and watch him for a few hours while I have a break. As well as as part of his Veterans benefits he will have a home health aid to help out. I fell this is a good move. I moved him home today. and he seems to be very happy and content.
His room is in our Parlor on the main floor. it is very comfortable. Hospice provided the bed, bed table, his medicines everything I need.down to rubber gloves.
The Hospice nurse helped me set up his medications so they will be easy to dispense. and he get interaction and personal care all day.
for those of you who are wondering if I can handle it. I think I can. and if after I have tried for a
while and decide I can no longer handle it then I call the veterans home and he will be placed in the first empty bed. Then at least I can say I gave it a good try and my conscience will be clear.The hardest part will be rolling him every 2 hours. but I can do it.
I would love to hear from all of you. I hope all is well.
Love you much
Jo Ellen
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By the way I have Skype if any of you wish to talk that way.... ID is i_b_don
I think that having Dad in your home is a great idea and the parlor is a pleasant room with the fireplace and being able to see into the front room as well as the dining area. I also like how you can let so much natural light into the room. I think he will be happier with you and your family than at the Veterans home and a lot less stress on you because of all the travel time and expenses from each visit.
If you need anything at all, don't hesitate to let me know and will do what I can.
So glad I was able to talk with Dad on the phone a few weeks ago and let him know how much I love him and for the way he brought us up.
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